Hello readers! Haven't posted in this blog for a while but lead to talk about this particular subject. Most husbands won't talk about this, and most won't admit that they are bitten by the spirit of sexual sins which are done in secret. Now I will tell the truth about this. Before the majority of us Christian men gave our lives to the Lord, we were worldly. Right? We had many female friends and or girlfriends, spent much time going out and meeting women. Come on guys you know what I'm talking about, how we all would be at a hot night spot with beautiful women crossing our paths every few minutes while saying to ourselves, I can't believe she looks that good!!! Engaged in conversation with the rest of the guys about these women and who we are going to talk to first. We were woman crazy. We just could not shake away how beautiful women are. Some of our game was so tight that we felt it was possible to talk to any woman so desired. Dating these women, kissing, and having much sex was just the thing to do.
Here is a reality check. When these men got married, many of them did not stop. Some just slowed down while a handful did stop. Just like when you first get saved you don't stop cold turkey from your old ways, but you try hard and work earnestly to bury that past sinful life. Men's two loves are money and women, and when the two are placed together then you have a strong addiction on your flesh that is hard to shake. It's like a drug and can become fatal. What I'm saying is before you get married you have to let that go. Recognize that you have a problem because if you don't then you could ruin your marriage. There are still Christian men out here who are addicted to women. Still starring at them imaging what and how you would dominate them in bed! You don't have to have physical contact with them but just the lust in it is the secret sin. The secret is not all the way secret because God knows. The more we stare at other women, secretly watch porn, the harder it will be to shake off those demons of lust and adultery. Matthew 5:28 But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart. We are always going to see beautiful women because it is just part of God's creation. Married Christian men that are engaging in these secret sexual sins, are allowing the spirit of adultery to come in and before you know it, your marriage is done! You know what else is done? Your relationship with Christ, because how can you have a relationship with him and you are in sexual sin? Repent with your whole heart and he will forgive.
In conclusion, all married men need to know and understand, whether you are a pastor, preacher, deacon, bishop, evangelist, small or great, that fighting temptation with fervent praying against that spirit of sexual lust, and adultery will win you a victory every time. Men are so wired differently than women. If we don't fight then we are going to severely lose! If you truly love God and your wife, then you will fight. Men love women, love looking at them, love the sweet soft sound of their voice, and love to flirt. Start loving the sound of God's voice, and the voice of your beautiful wife! The Holy Spirit said that many married disciples of Christ are allowing the sexual influence of the devil to hinder their walk with Yeshua and that very thing will get them to hell. If you are engaging in secret sexual sin then pray and ask God to change you. You need to go through deliverance.
UPDATE:
I have decided to update this blog just a little because of the fact many Christian married men are reading but not listening!!! God is WARNING you! Many Christian husbands are right now involved with someone outside of their marriage! God is telling you to stop but you still won't listen. There are some of you right now who have slept with another woman and have impregnated her! God is again WARNING you Christian men!!! There is another group of men who hold the title PASTOR, DEACON, MINISTER, PREACHER, TEACHER, all who work in the ministry and married that are committing adultery! Some of your wives have found out and they are torn to pieces because they trusted you! They looked up to you! They really believed that their husband was a man of God but now because of your sins against God and your wife, you have opened up gateways of spiritual disaster. Again God is saying REPENT! If you don't repent, many will die and some will even die in the middle of their adulterous affairs! Repent and turn away from your sins. Lusting is committing adultery. You are dealing with demons!
To the men in Russia, Repent!
To the men in the United Kingdom, Repent!
To the men in Poland, Repent!
To the men in Canada, Repent!
To the men in the United States, Repent!
To the men in South Africa, Repent!
To the men all around the world, REPENT!
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ReplyDeleteAwesome post....probably my favorite. Thanks buddy.
ReplyDeleteIVE BEEN SURFING THE WEB...I'M STUCK IN I DON'T KNOW WHAT. THIS IS MORE LIKE A QUESTION THEN COMMENT. I AM MARRIED. I'M FEMALE AND I AM SAVED AND SERVE THE LORD JESUS CHRIST. MY HUSBAND LIVES IN HIS OWN HOUSE. HE IS ADDICTED TO DRUGS AND DOES NOT WANT TO CHANGE. SINCE I AM HIS WIFE EVEN THO WE ARE NOT TOGETHER I HAVE SEX WITH HIM. I WANTED TO KNOW WHY EVERYTIME WE MAKE LOVE I GET REALLY SICK AFTER? I FEEL SO SICK I WANT TO THROW UP. MY STOMACH ACHES LIKE SOMETHING I CAN'T EXPLAIN.. I FEEL AS IF MY HUSBAND RELEASES DEMONS IN ME. I LEAVE HIS HOUSE TO GET TO MINE AND WHEN IN FALL IN MY BED.....I'M SO SICK I CRY OUT TO THE LORD I EVEN GET OLIVE OIL AND BUT IT ON MY BELLY ..I REBUKE IT IN THE NAME OF JESUS! SOON AFTER I FEEL A SPIRIT OF PEACE. AND A CALMNESS WITHIN MY BODY...WHAT IS THAT? AND WHY? I'V BEEN TEMPTED TO DEVORCE HIM ...BUT THEN I REMEMBER THAT THE LORD LOVES HIM TOO......I SOMETIMES THINK THAT HES BEING USED TO STOP ME IN MY WALK WITH THE LORD. IF I JUST LAY WITH HIM HE SAYS THINGS LIKE HE CAN SEE MY BELLY RISEN AND I CRY AND TELL HIM NO! I'M PURE UNTO THE LORD AND HE WILL TELL ME THAT SOMEONES TOUCHING ME. I ARGUE THAT IT'S NOT TRUE..I HAVE THE PROTECTION OF OUR LORD JESUS CHRIST. I HAVE THE BLOOD OF JESUS OVER ME. PLEASE RESPOND TO THIS ASAP ...THANKS
ReplyDeleteHi and thanks for your question and concerns. Well you actually answered your question. Your husband does have demons in him more than one. Not only because of the drugs but because of sin period. Not living for Christ is living for Satan which I'm sure you know. Here's what's happening, because of the fact that when we become married like I am, we become one. Just like the Father(God), the Son (Christ Jesus) and the Holy Spirit are all one. With that being said, because your husband has those demons in him through drugs, when you lay down with him you can actually feel those demons trying to come off into you. Keep speaking the blood of Jesus and tell them that you are a child of the most high King. Tell them that they can't enter into you because you are under the protection of the Holy Spirit. Tell them to come out of you! I would suggest that you pray before you become intimate with your husband. I really would like to touch on the divorce end of it but I will just say this. Make sure that you have a good talk with the Lord about that. God sees everything and knows everything and if you feel that he is or will release you from your marriage contract then do it. Yes satan is trying to keep you from God. He wants you to lose your faith in Christ.
DeleteIf you really want to hear the voice of God with hearing the answers for your situation, I would strongly suggest that you go on a 40 day fast. That could be liquids, veggies, fruits etc. Just talk to the Lord and he will let you know what to do and how to do it. During the fast you must pray more than you normally pray. Pray with 100 percent faith and cast down any doubts. Fill your room up with praise and worship music because that is good for your spirit and to help align you up with God. Get on your knees every night and know that when you do, you are actually before the feet of the Father! Pray in the spirit all day everyday with praying for deliverance for your husband.
I pray this helps and please keep in touch with me because you will have a praise report!