I'm back after a long time of being away from what I love to do and that is blogging! Thank you for joining me. I've also lost people because some can't handle the truth regarding sin. I'm straight to the point with no punches pulled. I'm tough but loving. I'm hard on myself because I was once a worldly guy who left Christ. So my advice to you is that if you can't handle hearing the whole truth which may apply to your life of daily living and have a closed heart to what the Lord has placed in my spirit for me to convey. This isn't the place for you.
What married men need to understand is that we are satan's target #1. Why? The answers is this. God loves families and families start with the man and woman which is the husband and wife. So we all know that it takes two to come together to conceive a child. I'm not talking about this artificial way of doing it. I'm talking about the seed that God has placed in women for it be able to produce children. Satan wants to put a stop to that so that God's creation won't be effective, keeping his creation from growing up as God's servants to carry out his plans.
How does satan do this? Simply by placing a very beautiful delightful woman in our path. Everything from her looks, to her beautiful hair, body shape, sound of her voice, warmth of her smile and here's the killer. The fact that she pays attention to you even at a time when you may feel that your own wife doesn't pay you much attention any more. Almost everyday when you are either out with your wife or just by yourself, you see beautiful women. You can even be at a grocery store just to pick up the smallest item but only to see a woman cross your path that puts you in disbelief of how could a woman look that good or be that beautiful! So now the devil has gotten into your head because you're already thinking on her beauty. Then you find yourself comparing her to your wife. As time goes on and days go by you continue to notice more and more beautiful women. You're constantly comparing them to your wife.
The results are this. You find yourself lusting after these women, comparing them to your wife. When you're with your wife, you're thinking about those women that caught your eye. You find yourself to the point where you can't look at your wife in the face like you use to. She becomes less attractive to you and in some cases, she's not attractive to you anymore period. Your weak flesh can't take it anymore and you go and talk to this woman. The arrangement is made through texting and next thing you know is that you and this beautiful woman are up in a motel room going at it like sex is gonna be sold out in a few hours. After you've had your powerful orgasm, you find yourself falling in love (lust) and within the next several days you two are back at it again. You're wife finds out, the kids are hurt. You're going through an ugly divorce that seems like it will never end. You can't sleep at night because you suddenly realize that you made the dumbest mistake of your entire life!
Was it really worth it? So here's the solution. Whenever beautiful women cross your path and or have a great excellent opportunity to hook up. PRAY PRAY PRAY. Find anything you can inside of you and pray and ask the Lord for strength. Don't allow the devil to destroy what God has ordained for your life which is marriage. Always think about your wife's feelings before you make a stupid decision. If you've already committed adultery then repent with your whole heart.
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