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Sleeping with married men! Chances are if you are reading this you may be a woman who, are either having sex with a married man, thinking about having sex with a married man, have a history of sleeping with married men, or may know of someone who is sleeping with a married man. Now let me say this and please listen so that you won't miss something. This subject is not about men sleeping with married women but women sleeping with married men. This is not to pick on women and this is not to say that it is all women's fault. I do know that it takes two and that married men are wrong as well but for this topic it is about women.
There are many women all around this globe this very hour that are contemplating whether or not to sleep with a married man that they know. They are fighting in their mind the fact that it would be wrong to do so but continued images keep rising up in their mind of the married man with thoughts of how good it would feel, both physically and emotionally. Just the thought alone of wanting a married man is wrong also called "COVETING"
Thou shalt not covet thy neighbour's house, thou shalt not covet thy neighbour's wife, nor his manservant, nor his maidservant, nor his ox, nor his ass, nor any thing that is thy neighbour's.
With that being stated in the scriptures, it is clearly wrong! Wanting something that doesn't belong to you can cause several problems. Women say that there is something special about a man who makes a marriage commitment. Many who have dated have been waiting for their men to commit in marriage but it just never happened. I believe that it caused much frustration among women and feeling like they can't find a man that is ready for that big step. When an attractive married man comes long then women are like wow where was he at when I was getting rejected. It seems that all of the good men are already married. Whatever reason their mind gets twisted with greed, envy, lust, and covetousness in their heart and desire to have either a piece of the pie or the whole thing out right! They say there is something about a married man that is attractive and it's commitment! Women in my opinion are like bloodhounds because they can sniff married men out of a pack of lions! Well at least quite a few of them can. They would also do many things to try and get the man's attention. It's not to see if they "STILL GOT IT" but it is to see just how much they got it. A woman could be at the mall inside a store and see a couple together. She sees that the man is attractive while noticing that the pair is wearing wedding rings. She will do little things like walking past the man very slow while discreetly flaunting her body. While looking out of the corner of her eye she is looking to see if the man is looking at her. BINGO he is!!!! That makes her feel good. Another known tool that women will use are there eyes! While the wife is busying looking and trying on shoes, that is her cue to really get the man's attention because the wife is not paying any attention to what's going on around her but the shoes. Now here comes the woman with thinking how she already noticed that this man was looking at her and she decides to raise the stakes a little higher by looking right into the man's eyes using them to flirt! I call that eye talk because you women have a way of talking to us men with your eyes. You can say a complete sentence to us just by using your eyes! I'm so serious! While this married man is gazing back into your eyes all the while this poor wife is so into making a selection for purchase, you are getting a feeling inside of you that feels so good because of this married man who is fully committed, you now have his attention! Your mind starts to wander in fantasy thinking of the "what if" possibilities. You know that men look at you all the time but for some reason, the devil makes you feel like this look that the married man is giving you is so different than the rest. You think that there is something so special about the way he is staring at you. The way he forms his lips and eyes is just extra sexy to you because he is showing you that he really wants you! You later see this same couple in another store and while still being on a particular high from your last encounter you see yet another chance. The wife goes into the dressing room to try on several outfits that she wants to look sexy in for her husband. You begin to speak to him with your eyes again by saying that I want you. The devil has already jumped off into this man for him to be very disrespectful to his wife. The next thing you know is that he is writing down his cell number quickly and discreetly with name and the phrase "text me"! That is just one example of how it could and has happened to people. If you know that the man is married then don't take his number or just don't call or text him.
There are other things that can drive a woman to want to be with and have sex with a married man. It can also be an emotional crisis. I will be honest with you readers about a past situation that my wife and several other people know about. I had a good friend from high school who I've developed a great friendship with through out the years. During that time I suspected that she liked me more than just friends but for me, I've always thought that we were just cool friends. I was always nice to her with just being my usual silly self. I was dating a lot of girls then and would talk about them but I noticed she really didn't like me to talk about them around her. Her sister really thought I was cool even while she was dating another guy. Her sister told me one day that she really wish me and her sister would get together. I didn't say anything because I was too nice and didn't want to hurt anyone's feelings.
I had no desires of being with my close friend like that. Later on she got married. She would call me all the time complaining about her husband and this went on for a very long time. Even before she got married to him they were having problems. She would tell me about their arguments while being very upset but I would try to help by giving advice. My first mistake that I made was getting involved. Even though we were friends I should not have been talking to her on the phone seeing how she is a married woman. Later it got to the point where she was telling me how she really felt about me which it wasn't the first time that she had expressed interest in me. I felt awkward! In the year 2001 I married my beautiful wife and at the time my friend and her husband were still having problems. They left my wedding early that evening but when it was all over, me and my new bride were in the car leaving to only get a phone call from my friend sounding ever so hurt by me getting married! Things didn't get much better because she continued to solicit me over to her home while the husband was at work during the afternoon shift to have sex with her! This not only went on before I got married but after! Let me say this that I can honestly say before God that I did not go over there and I did not have sexual relations with her none whatsoever!!!! I never ever found her attractive but even if I did I would never ever disrespect her husband nor my wife! I remember being in such an awkward situation I had to tell one of my cousins about it and even had him on the three way to hear her wanting to have sex with me just so he wouldn't think I was going crazy! He was stunned! I love my wife so much that I even told her about it and let me tell you that she was not happy!!! I can't blame her. I didn't have to tell my wife that but because I love her I didn't want to hide any secrets from her. I think that me always being there for her when she had problems with her husband help spark that emotional desire with also knowing that I'm a good man, she may have desired for her husband to be like that. Now she is a different person with trying to grow closer to Christ with her husband.
It doesn't matter if you are seeking out a married man or already know one because getting involved can be dangerous! You find yourself going to this man talking about your problems because you know that he will listen to your every word seeing how he really finds you attractive. He will soak up everything about you, every word and just by him listening and being there for you, it makes you feel so good while already feeling special that this man is taking time and attention off his wife and focusing on you. You guys make plans to meet up in a designated place at a certain time. Now you are so excited because you are about to get your chance to be alone with this man. Thinking about your past conversations that was sexual in nature and the fact that you are sneaking around, you start to get an adrenaline rush through your sexual organs! All of those emotions, and strong feelings for him make you realize that you have fallen in love! The next thing you know you are having sex with a married man! That really makes you feel good doesn't it? You continue on with this sexual sin by planning yet another encounter because you can't stop thinking of how good the sex was during the last encounter! Now you find yourself wanting more and more! You meet with him again in his private office or motel. Some of you have the nerve to go to his home while the loving wife is away only to jump in their bed to carry on like two wild love lions! What a shame. You are so caught up in how good it feels but you know deep down that it is just wrong. You allowed yourself to be under the stronghold of Satan! You find yourself falling even deeper in love with this man that somewhere in your pretty little mind you think that he will divorce his wife and marry you. Sometimes it happens that way and other times it doesn't. There are some women with devilish thinking that they would do just about anything to steal the married man from his wife which includes trying to get pregnant.
While everything is just so exciting for you, you just don't stop and clearly use your God given brain to think through what's a stake here and whose lives you are destroying. Often times there are children involved who love their parents and think that they have a happy home but when word is out in the home that mommy's hurt and crying because daddy cheated with this strange women (you) then their home is now broken. The arguing and fighting begins, the children are scared and have to go to school with all of the madness going on to where they can't concentrate on school. The wife is so heart broken because she thought that her husband truly loved her. Now her personal self esteem is at an all time low. She did everything for her husband and gave him all the love in the world only to have some strange woman hop in the bed with her husband! Ladies do you realize that your sexual adulterous affairs can and have lead to suicide? Some cases the hurt wife will kill herself because of the pain is just too much. There are also cases where the mystery woman has committed suicide because she allowed her weak flesh to get so involved with being in love and realize that the man will never leave his wife.
He who commits adultery lacks sense; he who does it destroys himself.
Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous.
And I say to you: whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery.”
There are many of you who honestly did not know that the man you are sleeping with was married. When some of you found out, you made the right choice to move away from that situation and I want to say PRAISE GOD! Many others just would not leave because they allowed their flesh to take control of their spirit with not wanting to let go!
In conclusion here I want to have a heart to heart and spiritual talk with you. The Lord God has commissioned me to talk to you ladies and trust me I will be blogging about the men as well. God sees and knows all. You may be thinking that you are getting away with a steamy sexual so called love affair with a married man but I am here to tell you that you are not! Stop what you are doing and call upon the Lord God! You are not only hurting innocent people but you are also hurting yourself. REPENT and ask God for forgiveness. Not only ask for forgiveness but turn completely way from your sin. Jesus loves you but hates your sins. If you don't stop what you're doing then you will have to answer to God and there is a special place for you in hell with all the adulterers burning night and day. Yes you will burn for all eternity if you don't stop what you're doing and repent.
1 Corinthians 6:9-10
9 Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind,
10 Nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God.
If any of you are involved with a married man and feel that you can't get out or find yourself falling for him then please feel free to post your situation and you can remain anonymous. If you are having suicidal thoughts due to being messed up in this type of relationship then please let me know. God will heal you. God will deliver you if you want to be delivered. I will be more than happy to pray for you.
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